Dear Aunt Aussie,

I have a 4 month old puppy that loves to play tug. I was told by the trainer at our puppy good citizen class that I should not encourage this behavior as it will lead to aggression.
Is that a true statement? Am I encouraging aggression playing a game that he loves so much?

Signed

Disheartened in Dayton

Dear Disheartened,

I for one LOVE a good game of tug. Studies have now that playing tug games with dogs/puppies will not cause them to be aggressive.

This is a common misconception that has survived in our culture for a very long time, kept alive by old school trainers who refuse to embrace new techniques.

Playing tug is a natural game, and dogs/puppies play it for fun. That’s why tug games are so effective for training. It’s FUN!

If your dog has a dominate personality, playing tug can actually reinforce your leader status, here’s how.

1. End the game on your terms and before the dog/puppy is ready to quit.
2. Always keep possession of the toy when the game is over.
3. Don’t let the dog/puppy win possession of the toy every time. Exhibit your control and strength.

Incorporate a word that means let go of the toy, for example “Drop” and train the dog/puppy to release the toy on command.

Remember to always treat for the behavior you want.

Following these rules will let your dog see that you control the toy and the game.

If your dog is a strong tugger get a toy that has one or two handles, which will help you hang onto and control the toy.

If your dog/puppy keeps inching up the tug and teeth touch your hand end the game immediately! Keep possession of the toy and walk away.

He will quickly learn that if he wants to play then he plays by your rules.

Long live the game of TUG!!